If You're Facing Transition, Don't Lose Hope!

I was 20 years old in this photo. My parents had just moved me to Dayton, OH to join Dayton Contemporary Dance Company 2!

In my mind, I had come to dance and only dance. But, God had much more in store for me.

I would gain lifelong friendships. 

I would continue my college education online.

I would see servant leadership modeled by Shonna Hickman-Matlock, who was the DCDC2 artistic director.

I would find work alongside a successful entrepreneur and get a head start in business.

And of course, I would dance my heart out.

I learned a lot in my time there and I use it all today.

So much has changed since this photo was taken. I have experienced so many transitions! It is the nature of a career in the arts and of course, the nature of life. It doesn't get any easier, but you do get stronger.

If you're in transition...

1. Remain hopeful for jobs and opportunities. I didn't dance much for the entire year before I joined the company. It wasn't on purpose, I had moved back home after completing a contract in New York and was just trying to find my way. A few years later, I taught for an entire year without performing and landed a full-time contract. Though it will take time for the opportunities (specifically in the arts) to return, we will create and as you can see, we're already innovating.

2. Grow where you're planted. Like many second companies, DCDC2 was not paid. It was necessary for me to work a day job. I worked at an insurance agency and later I worked for a manufacturer as a production planning assistant. Though neither was my dream job, I couldn't help but learn from the experiences. I'm still using that knowledge to shape my own enterprises to this day. If you need to take a job that you don't like while you're waiting for the job that you want (or want to create) learn everything that you can from it!

3. Love others and allow yourself to be loved. I wouldn't be where I am today without the support and assistance of my family and friends. I know what it is like to feel like a burden because you need help. You are not a burden! Let those who love you, help you. Never get so far into your own problems that you don't keep an eye out for others- whether by sharing knowledge or spending time, or just listening. You will find yourself blessed in return.

4. Allow the adversity to make you stronger. Both my husband and I have faced times of unemployment and/or underemployment. It is so hard! But, we fight to grow. The best times for us as a family have come after hard times. We've started new businesses, we've become more creative, and we've valued each other more.

How do you handle transition? What would you say to someone facing transition today?